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????“我們發(fā)現(xiàn)太多的人都在焦躁不安地說(shuō)個(gè)不停,。說(shuō)這么多除了浪費(fèi)大量時(shí)間之外,,幾乎對(duì)這個(gè)世界毫無(wú)益處?!薄バ鄹实?/em> ????美國(guó)是性格外向者的天下,,因此,不習(xí)慣讓自己馬上進(jìn)入狀態(tài),、每時(shí)每刻都融入周圍環(huán)境的人日子或許很不好過(guò),。我們這個(gè)以名人為導(dǎo)向的文化青睞的是聲如洪鐘、血?dú)夥絼?、直奔主題的人,,同時(shí)為我們中間那些安靜、沉思和拘謹(jǐn)?shù)娜嗽O(shè)置了重重社會(huì)障礙,。于是,,我們被淹沒(méi)在了由自我推銷、廣告,,以及主要與名人有關(guān)的所謂“新聞”所構(gòu)成的白噪音之中。 ????現(xiàn)在讓我們來(lái)認(rèn)識(shí)一下曾經(jīng)代理過(guò)摩根大通(JP Morgan)和通用電氣(General Electric)等公司法律事務(wù)的前華爾街律師蘇珊?凱恩,。她后來(lái)成為一名談判顧問(wèn),,為包括對(duì)沖基金經(jīng)理和電視節(jié)目制作人在內(nèi)的眾多職場(chǎng)人士提供培訓(xùn)服務(wù)。在《靜水流深:喧囂世界里內(nèi)向者的力量》(QUIET -- The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking )一書(shū)中,,蘇珊?凱恩把目光投向了一個(gè)她聲稱是自己同類的群體:性格內(nèi)向的人,。 ????凱恩在書(shū)中探討了這個(gè)(大約)占據(jù)三分之一人口的群體所面臨的問(wèn)題、他們的挫折以及成就,。通過(guò)借鑒大量的心理學(xué)和社會(huì)學(xué)研究成果,,她對(duì)性格內(nèi)向者的行為方式進(jìn)行了解讀。 ????雖然凱恩的證據(jù)并非全是新的,,但書(shū)中提及的許多例證的確不為普通讀者所熟知,。比如,1987年一項(xiàng)針對(duì)計(jì)算機(jī)程序員的研究發(fā)現(xiàn),,最富有生產(chǎn)力的編碼員產(chǎn)生的工作成果要比生產(chǎn)力最低下的同事多10倍,。這項(xiàng)研究發(fā)現(xiàn),編碼員的生產(chǎn)率與其年齡,、接受的培訓(xùn),、經(jīng)驗(yàn)和所在公司并不存在相關(guān)性。相反,,影響生產(chǎn)率最大的單一因素是工作是否有過(guò)中斷,。很符合情理,對(duì)不對(duì),?計(jì)算機(jī)程序員這項(xiàng)工作吸引了許多性格內(nèi)向的人,,因?yàn)樗麄兿矚g在一個(gè)安靜的地方思考問(wèn)題,。 ????凱恩用源源不斷的事實(shí)、訪談和性格內(nèi)向者的經(jīng)歷牢牢抓住了讀者的心,。這些性格內(nèi)向的人調(diào)整自我以適應(yīng)這個(gè)嘈雜喧鬧,、隨機(jī)連接的社會(huì),有些人做到了,,但有些人卻沒(méi)有,。她發(fā)現(xiàn),內(nèi)向性格在遠(yuǎn)東地區(qū)更為普遍,,其核心價(jià)值也更受珍視,,這一點(diǎn)從她對(duì)亞裔美國(guó)大學(xué)生的訪談中可見(jiàn)一斑。 ????作者對(duì)工商界有著切身的了解,,在書(shū)中為企業(yè)經(jīng)理人和人力資源專業(yè)人士提供了無(wú)數(shù)頗具價(jià)值的洞見(jiàn),。比如,她指出,,小組頭腦風(fēng)暴會(huì)議和開(kāi)放式辦公環(huán)境往往適合于性格外向者,,但或許會(huì)產(chǎn)生一效果,使性格更為內(nèi)向的同事“噤若寒蟬”,。 ????這本書(shū)的最后一部分主要是向性格內(nèi)向者傳授如何應(yīng)對(duì)一個(gè)性格外向者大行其道的社會(huì),。盡管此處略顯累贅,但對(duì)于性格內(nèi)向者的老師和家長(zhǎng)來(lái)說(shuō),,凱恩提供的建議卻彌足珍貴,。 ????凡是關(guān)心人們的思考、工作和交往方式的人,,以及希望了解身邊同事行為模式背后原因的人,,應(yīng)該都會(huì)對(duì)《靜水流深》這本書(shū)感興趣。這本書(shū)對(duì)于性格內(nèi)向者(以及他們的父母)來(lái)說(shuō)更是不容錯(cuò)過(guò),,或許人們可以用來(lái)幫助自己提升自信,。總體而言,,我認(rèn)為凱恩這部著作有著廣泛的讀者,。我猜想,大約占總?cè)丝谌种话伞?/p> ????譯者:任文科 |
????"We find so many people impatient to talk. All this talking can hardly be said to be of any benefit to the world. It is so much waste of time." --Mahatma Gandhi ????Extroverts rule in American society, which can make life difficult for those who aren't comfortable imposing themselves, instantly and constantly, on their surroundings. Our celebrity-driven culture favors loud, impulsive, forthright folk and sets up social hazards for the quiet, thoughtful and reserved among us. As a result we're swamped by the white noise of self-promotion, advertising, and so-called "news" about, mostly, celebrity. ????Enter Susan Cain, a former Wall Street attorney who represented clients like JP Morgan and General Electric. That led to a career as a negotiations consultant, training everyone from hedge fund managers to TV producers. In QUIET -- The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking, she sets her sights on the tribe she claims as her own, introverts. ????Cain explores the issues, frustrations, and accomplishments of the (approximately) one-third of the population who fall on this side of the personality curve. Drawing on extensive psychological and sociological research, she explains why introverts act the way they do. ????While not all of Cain's evidence is new, much of it will be unfamiliar to lay readers. For example, a 1987 study of computer programmers found that the most productive coders generated 10 times more work than their least productive colleagues. The study found no correlation between productivity on one hand, and age, training, experience, or company on the other. Rather, the single biggest factor in their productivity was lack of interruptions. Makes sense, right? Computer programming attracts many introverts who like a quiet place to think. ????Cain holds the reader's interest with a steady stream of facts, interviews and stories about introverts who have adjusted (or not) to a loud, boisterous, casually connected society. She finds that introversion is more common and its defining values more valued in the Far East, a theme that emerges in interviews with Asian-American college students. ????The author's intimate knowledge of the corporate world fuels numerous useful insights for managers and HR professionals. For example, she notes that group brainstorming sessions and open-plan offices tend to suit extroverts but may have a chilling effect on more introverted colleagues. ????The last part of the book is focused on teaching introverts how to cope in an extroverted society. Although the story drags a bit here, Cain offers a wealth of useful advice for teachers and parents of introverts. ????QUIET should interest anyone who cares about how people think, work, and get along, or wonders why the guy in the next cubicle acts that way. It should be required reading for introverts (or their parents) who could use a boost to their self-esteem. Overall I think Cain will reach a wide audience. About a third of us, I suspect. |
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