????Treat a man as he is and he will remain as he is. Treat a man as he can and should be and he will become as he can and should be.

????一個人是怎樣的人便怎樣待他,，他便還是怎樣的人,；一個人能夠怎樣或是應(yīng)當(dāng)怎樣便怎樣待他，他便會成為能夠怎樣或是應(yīng)當(dāng)怎樣的人,。

????─歌德（Johann Wolfgang von Goethe,，德國詩人）