忙碌的企業(yè)家和高管們總是要應(yīng)對(duì)很多事情,，很容易變得不堪重負(fù),。領(lǐng)導(dǎo)者事務(wù)繁多——撰寫商業(yè)計(jì)劃、雇傭員工,、管理團(tuán)隊(duì),、融資、吸引客戶,、參加交流活動(dòng)等等,。已經(jīng)有許多不錯(cuò)的建議來(lái)幫助他們平衡這一切，而我在這里也根據(jù)自己的經(jīng)歷給出一點(diǎn)忠告：你不能搞定一切,，你也不應(yīng)該搞定一切,。

不要誤解我——每天我都在努力帶領(lǐng)我的公司BoardProspects.com奮勇前進(jìn)，這是一家專門為企業(yè)董事會(huì)招聘高管的初創(chuàng)企業(yè),。我們要準(zhǔn)備和參加會(huì)議,、出差、進(jìn)行商業(yè)預(yù)測(cè)和規(guī)劃,、起草融資建議,、管理供應(yīng)商和團(tuán)隊(duì)、接受媒體采訪等等,。噢,，我還有家人需要我盡力照顧。這些事情即便不是很緊急,，對(duì)我公司的成功也很重要,，然而我畢竟只有一己之力，你也同樣如此,。

以下是我關(guān)于建立平衡,，保持冷靜的建議：

1、承認(rèn)你不可能搞定一切

許多企業(yè)家和高管都興奮地渴望獲得成功,。他們?cè)诤芏嗍虑樯贤度肓诉^(guò)量的精力,。然而你只有一己之力，一天只有這么多小時(shí),，所以應(yīng)該每天/每月/每季確定一兩個(gè)優(yōu)先項(xiàng)目,，然后全心投入在上面。

2,、了解你的長(zhǎng)處

聘用專家來(lái)處理你不擅長(zhǎng)的領(lǐng)域,。打造一支強(qiáng)大的團(tuán)隊(duì)能讓你抽身出來(lái)，建立一個(gè)不再需要你投入100%的精力和時(shí)間就能自己運(yùn)轉(zhuǎn)的體系,。招來(lái)合適的人,，相信你的團(tuán)隊(duì)能各司其職。

3、關(guān)注職業(yè)發(fā)展

幫助員工進(jìn)行職業(yè)發(fā)展十分重要,，不過(guò)也不要忘記自己,，你是他們的領(lǐng)導(dǎo)。去參加社交活動(dòng)向他人學(xué)習(xí),，或是參加教育研討會(huì)和學(xué)術(shù)會(huì)議,。另一個(gè)學(xué)習(xí)他人、擴(kuò)大職業(yè)社交圈的好方法是加入董事會(huì),。你能借此建立新的關(guān)系,，了解一家公司內(nèi)部的工作情況、公司戰(zhàn)略和領(lǐng)導(dǎo)層觀點(diǎn),。這能幫助你為自己的公司做出正確的決策,。它還能讓你接觸到事業(yè)相關(guān)的成功人士，并向他們?nèi)〗?jīng),。

4,、學(xué)會(huì)放松

偶爾，你也需要放慢步伐做個(gè)深呼吸,。請(qǐng)為你取得的成績(jī)感到驕傲,。沒(méi)錯(cuò)，你的待辦事項(xiàng)上還有許多條目,，不過(guò)放慢步伐靜一靜,，欣賞一下你的付出和收獲也很重要。按下暫停鍵往往能讓你想清楚一些事,，這是你在忙碌時(shí)做不到的,，所以好好享受片刻寧?kù)o吧。也許你能產(chǎn)生一個(gè)新想法,，一種新思路,，或是一個(gè)你之前從未想到的解決方案。

5,、尋找團(tuán)體感

如果你沒(méi)有共同創(chuàng)始人或同伴,，在領(lǐng)導(dǎo)團(tuán)隊(duì)或公司時(shí)可能會(huì)感到孤單。加入一個(gè)行業(yè)組織或企業(yè)關(guān)系團(tuán)體,，可以讓你有一些團(tuán)體感,。閱讀其他商業(yè)領(lǐng)袖寫的文章或商業(yè)書籍，學(xué)習(xí)他們?nèi)绾纹胶馐聞?wù),、應(yīng)對(duì)不同阻礙。

6,、每天讀報(bào)紙

不是網(wǎng)絡(luò)報(bào),，而是紙質(zhì)報(bào)。許多高管嘗試在網(wǎng)上看報(bào)紙,，但他們總是會(huì)分心去關(guān)注彈出的電子郵件或信息,。在我看來(lái),，沒(méi)有什么比離開電腦和移動(dòng)設(shè)備，花點(diǎn)時(shí)間讀讀報(bào)紙更能促進(jìn)你在職業(yè)和個(gè)人上的提升了,。報(bào)紙可以就每天發(fā)生在你周圍的重要事件和發(fā)展,，向你提供寶貴的觀點(diǎn)。這些事情都是你本來(lái)應(yīng)該關(guān)注,，卻因?yàn)樵噲D把所有事情做好而忽略的,。（財(cái)富中文網(wǎng)）

本文作者M(jìn)ark Rogers是BoardProspects.com創(chuàng)始人及首席執(zhí)行官。

譯者：嚴(yán)匡正

Busy entrepreneurs and executives have a lot to juggle, and it can easily become overwhelming. Between writing business plans, hiring employees, managing teams, raising capital, engaging customers, and networking events, there’s a lot on a leader’s plate. While there are many helpful suggestions on ways to balance everything, here’s another piece of advice I’ve learned during my journey: You can’t do it all. And you shouldn’t.

Don’t get me wrong – on any given day I’m deep in the weeds of leading my board recruitment startup, BoardProspects.com, preparing for and attending meetings, traveling, mapping out business projections and plans,drafting financing proposals, managing vendors and teams, media interviews, and more. Oh, and I have a family who I try to see as much as I can, too. All of these things are important — if not urgent — for my startup’s success, but I am only one person, and so are you. Here’s my best advice for how to create balance and stay sane:

Admit that you can’t do it all

Many entrepreneurs and executives are excited about being successful and focus too heavily on too many things. You are only one person and there are only so many hours in a day, so prioritize 1-2 projects each day/month/quarter and give them your all.

Identify your strengths

Hire talented professionals to handle the areas where you aren’t as strong. Building a strong team will allow you to step back and create a well-oiled machine that doesn’t require 100% of your attention 100% of the time. Hire the right people and then trust your team do their jobs.

Professional development

Helping your employees grow professionally is extremely important, but don’t forget about yourself, their leader. Attend networking events to learn from others, or join educational webinars and conferences. Another great way to learn from others and expand your professional network is to serve on a board. This fosters new relationships and gives you insight into the inner workings of a business, its strategies, and leadership insights that can help you make the right decisions for your own business. It also connects you to career-oriented, successful professionals to learn from.

Relax

Every now and then, slow down and take a deep breath. Feel proud of what you’ve created. Yes, there are a million items on your to-do list, but it’s important to take quiet moments to slow down and appreciate the work you’ve put in and what you’ve grown. Pressing pause often allows a sense of clarity that isn’t available when you’re stuck in the weeds, so savor it. It might give you a new idea, a fresh way of thinking, or allow you to recognize a solution to a problem you hadn’t thought of before.

Create a sense of community

Oftentimes it can be lonely leading a team or a business if you don’t have a co-founder or peer. Join an industry organization or business networking group in order to feel a sense of community. Read articles and business books by other business leaders to learn how they balance it all or approach different obstacles.

Read a newspaper every day

Not online – an actual newspaper. Many executives attempt to read newspapers online but inevitably become distracted when an email or text message appears on the screen. In my opinion, there is nothing more valuable in terms of your professional and personal growth than turning your attention from your PC or mobile device and taking the time to read a newspaper. It will give you a valuable perspective on important events and developments transpiring around you each day – events you should be aware about but aren’t because you are too caught up in trying to do it all.