????記住：絕不要想當(dāng)然認(rèn)為自己已經(jīng)理解,！始終要說“謝謝你的分享,。不知我理解的是否正確……”然后盡可能用他們自己的語言進行復(fù)述。事實證明,，用他們的語言表達(dá)進行回復(fù),，是另一種建立深層次默契和信任的方法。這樣做時,，你經(jīng)常會發(fā)現(xiàn),，其實自己并未理解，這可以讓你避免犯下大錯,。

????如果你告訴自己“說到容易做時難”,，這一點確實沒錯，人際關(guān)系從來都不是一件容易的事,。（歡迎來到地球?。┠敲礊槭裁匆〞r間將“上帝”變成合作伙伴？當(dāng)你實現(xiàn)這種轉(zhuǎn)變時,，就會獲得以下好處：

????? 當(dāng)你成為一名值得信賴的顧問而不是“供應(yīng)商”時,，就會有源源不斷的商業(yè)機會。

????·你可以從人與人之間的真正聯(lián)系中獲得個人滿足,。

????·長期的合作關(guān)系可以帶來深入的學(xué)習(xí)機會,。

????·對自己構(gòu)建良好人際關(guān)系能力的自信……即使對方是“上帝”。

????最后的哲理：“除非人們知道你有多在乎,，否則沒人會關(guān)心你知道多少,?！薄＠蛑Z?羅斯福。（財富中文網(wǎng)）

????譯者：南風(fēng)

????審校：Patti

????Remember:Never assume you have understood! Always say “Thanks for sharing that. Let me see if I understand…” And then play it back to them using their own words whenever possible. As it turns out, mirroring their words back to them is yet another way to establish deep rapport and trust. By doing this you will often discover that you didn’t understand and that lets you avoid big mistakes.

????If you are saying to yourself:“Easy to say, not easy to do” you are correct. Relationships are never easy. (Welcome to Earth!) So why is it worth your time to transform “Lords” into partners? Here is what is waiting for you when you do:

????? A never-ending stream of business opportunities as you become not a “vendor” but a Trusted Advisor

????? The personal satisfaction you get from real relationships with real people.

????? The deep learning that is possible when people form lasting partnerships

????? Confidence in your ability to create meaningful relationships…even with “Lords.

????Final Thought:“People don’t care how much you know…until they know how much you care.” Eleanor Roosevelt